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  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    Starting point

    March 20, 2022 /

    About three weeks ago I was encouraged by some Haitian friends to start using Duolingo. They knew of my interest in learning their language, and they had talked with me about the differences in the French and Haitian Creole languages, but there really wasn’t a place that would make it easy for me to learn kreyòl ayisyen. Then Duolingo announced they were releasing their course on Haitian Creole! They urged me to sign up, and so I did. I’m now about three weeks in, and it’s been a whirlwind. Here are some observations: Learning a language isn’t just about learning words. It’s about learning rhythms and logic and meanings of…

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    What makes someone a human?

    March 2, 2023

    One thing more

    November 20, 2022
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    My Year So Far

    June 1, 2024
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    The journey begins . . .

    February 21, 2022 /

    Today I started my first lessons in Haitian Creole (“kreyòl ayisyen”) using Duolingo. Wish me luck!

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    A Haitian man wearing a plaid tan shirt stands on a hillside looking over the valleys and hills below him.

    Ayiti se yon lide—Haiti is an idea

    January 3, 2023

    Ki kote m ye?

    July 23, 2023
    A book cover. A young boy holding his bicycle is kissed by a young girl.

    Mwen damou pou Vava – a story

    March 17, 2023
  • American Exceptionalism,  faith,  justice,  questions,  writing

    Beliefs and Behaviors

    August 19, 2021 /

    The Jesus of the texts doesn't encourage harm for others—and the opponents of health protocols aren't demonstrating the person of the texts.

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 12: Icebergs

    March 2, 2019

    The Fear of Transparency

    June 5, 2021
    Community and Acceptance

    What Is the Home That Shuts Its Doors to You?

    September 23, 2019
  • Sihouette of man walking toward light
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  justice,  racism

    Shadows on the Wall

    July 15, 2021 /

    CRT is about systems, not individuals. Systems are developed as shortcuts for lengthy processes so that we don’t spend all our time trying to figure out how to hand multiple situations and not have disparate outcomes.

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    Lenten Lamentations

    March 5, 2019

    My Dear White People

    November 10, 2019

    Believe

    February 1, 2019
  • Black Lives Matter,  humor,  justice,  racism,  reviews

    REVIEW: Sure, I’ll Be Your Black Friend

    June 25, 2021 /

    I’ve read many books this year, some of them similar to his in that they are life stories. This is the first one that I finished where I wanted to have more.

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    Jesus as Emperor

    March 22, 2022

    REVIEW: Shoutin’ in the Fire

    November 10, 2021

    My First Foray into the Field

    November 16, 2023
  • Brass key sitting on fallen leaves
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  faith,  justice,  racism

    Hard Questions, Hard Answers

    June 20, 2021 /

    Jesus gets to the heart of the matter, which is simply you can’t follow Jesus if you have more important things than Jesus.

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    When it is too much to bear but must be borne

    April 18, 2023

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 9: White Superiority

    February 19, 2019
    Boxes and cups and bottles all stacked on shelves

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 37: Boxes and Labels

    November 29, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Real but Imaginary Threats

    June 19, 2021 /

    Much ink will be spilled in the next few months or even years about the topic of Critical Race Theory (CRT), both by those who think they support it and those who think they oppose it

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 10: The Melting Pot

    February 22, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 42: Solidarity and Accountability

    March 16, 2020

    Moral Switzerlands

    July 15, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism,  writing

    The Fear of Transparency

    June 5, 2021 /

    The myth of white success also develops the myth of white innocence. All the successes were due to white efforts that others seemed unable to copy; all the events of terror and destruction were minimalized and forgotten. And white innocence was preserved & confirmed for a people who could gladly declare their devotion to America as the land of “liberty and justice for all.”

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    Maybe the Tree Is Bad

    April 16, 2021
    Four toddlers forming a circle of friendship

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 44: Listening

    March 28, 2020
    Two orange butterflies alight several thistle blossoms

    Bullhorns and Butterflies

    June 19, 2022
  • A white man in a hat smiles at a white woman who smiles back.
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  Books,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    REVIEW: Good White Racist?

    May 24, 2021 /

    As your friend, I need to tell you something about myself that I also see in you, and it’s something that’s bringing harm to people.

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    Wherefore art thou, Evangelicals?

    May 11, 2022
    Man sitting on subway

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 30: Feelings and the Culture of Niceness

    September 10, 2019
    Two orange butterflies alight several thistle blossoms

    Bullhorns and Butterflies

    June 19, 2022
  • American flag, backlighted so that a white cross appears on the blue canton with white stars
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    The Devil Is a Christian Nationalist

    May 23, 2021 /

    There is no divine right for Christians to control the government. There is no place in the Constitution for Christians to be given charge of the government to rule as “Christians.”

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    The Voices Are Coming from Inside the House

    July 12, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 10: The Melting Pot

    February 22, 2019

    It Doesn’t Have to Be This Way

    February 6, 2019
  • A Black woman and a white woman look down at an unseen fire. One is holding a stick with a marshmallow on it.
    musings

    REVIEW: The Black Friend: On Being a Better White Person

    May 20, 2021 /

    Absolutely great. Frank, honest, funny, touching, real. Frederick Joseph here is at once wonderfully endearing and approachable and also blunt and direct, someone who is self-possessed and self-aware, and someone who is going to be a great friend for whomever will let him be exactly that. I found myself laughing on quite a few pages, but almost in the next line wincing or even blurting out “oh my god.” There is so much truth here, and great observations, and the definite proclamation of “I am a man,” much in the spirit of the resisters of the 1960s. I appreciated so much the willingness to go into the paint, as it…

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    Great Expectations

    June 4, 2019

    The Voices Are Coming from Inside the House

    July 12, 2019

    Trying Every Doorknob

    February 15, 2019
  • Gruff bearded white cowboy wearing a white hat
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills

    REVIEW: Jesus and John Wayne

    May 19, 2021 /

    Du Mez answers the question “What happened to white Evangelicals between Clinton and Trump?” with provocative, well-researched data to show the inevitability of the election results in 2016—and 2020.

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    The Voices Are Coming from Inside the House

    July 12, 2019

    Green Books, Black Lives, and White History

    February 28, 2019

    Lenten Lamentations

    March 5, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  justice,  racism

    Maybe the Tree Is Bad

    April 16, 2021 /

    If policing is such a difficult skill that it results in the killing of Black civilians again and again then perhaps the problem is not the civilians.

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    What makes someone a human?

    March 2, 2023
    Four toddlers forming a circle of friendship

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 44: Listening

    March 28, 2020
    nine glass windows, from black to white

    White Jesus, Bible Jesus: Pick One

    November 14, 2019
  • Books,  education,  faith,  reviews

    REVIEW: Urban Apologetics

    April 6, 2021 /

    This is a solid book and a solid resource for any Christian, but it is focused on the needs of the Black Christian in today’s America.

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    If I love you, I have to make you conscious of the things you don’t see

    January 26, 2019
    A white man in a hat smiles at a white woman who smiles back.

    REVIEW: Good White Racist?

    May 24, 2021

    Review: When They Call You a Terrorist

    February 9, 2019
  • faith,  family,  justice,  musings,  racism

    This Do

    April 1, 2021 /

    There is nothing that white American Christians have or want as human beings that our Black brothers and sisters do not want.

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    When we resist, we resist completely

    April 8, 2023

    What Would You Do If You Could Bring Conciliation?

    January 17, 2019

    In the Fields of the Lord

    February 12, 2019
  • faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    On the Public Death of a Suspect

    March 30, 2021 /

    I am watching the trial of Derek Chauvin, taking place right now, to determine his culpability and guilt in the public death of George Floyd some ten months ago.

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    When the Good News Isn’t So Good

    December 10, 2021

    What Would You Do If You Could Bring Conciliation?

    January 17, 2019
    A Black woman looks at the camera. We see her brown eyes and brown skin.

    When We See Them

    October 24, 2024
  • church building in an empty field. The sky is gloomy. A fence runs down the right side of the picture.
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Can This Racial Division Be Healed?

    February 11, 2021 /

    It’s fascinating and saddening to realize that the people who are outside the faith have a better understanding of Jesus and Christianity and the Gospel than many Evangelicals have.

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 4: Optimism

    February 2, 2019

    Maybe the Tree Is Bad

    April 16, 2021

    Words and Deeds

    March 3, 2019
  • Three people sit facing a large mural. The mural has about a hundred faces.
    American Exceptionalism,  history,  justice,  photos,  racism

    We Must See People in Color

    January 22, 2021 /

    It is the reality of America that white people do recognize color, and use it for judgment about a person’s character.

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    Beliefs and Behaviors

    August 19, 2021
    Several Haitian schoolchildren line up for a picture.

    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023
    Mural of man expressing anger. Blue hair and shirt.

    With Malice Aforethought

    May 9, 2020
  • Close-up of two old doors painted white. The paint is peeling off.
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Beyond the Sight Lines of Racism

    January 1, 2021 /

    Small acts lead to great effects, and nothing that we do is wasted when we are committed to doing well.

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    Real but Imaginary Threats

    June 19, 2021

    Feats of Clay

    December 31, 2018

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 9: White Superiority

    February 19, 2019
  • Books,  faith,  justice,  racism

    REVIEW: How to Fight Racism

    December 28, 2020 /

    Working to bring our fellow human beings up to their full dignity as people who are endowed with full human, civil rights is a good thing for all of us,

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    REVIEW: Anxious to Talk About It

    January 17, 2022

    REVIEW: Subversive Witness: Scripture’s Call to Leverage Privilege

    December 12, 2021

    Review: When They Call You a Terrorist

    February 9, 2019
  • reviews

    THE CHRISTMAS EVE PROMISE—Interview with Elyse Douglas

    October 6, 2020 /

    Do those people change history all that much as they live their little lives? We come and go like passing clouds.

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    A Review of BRIGHT STAR the Musical

    August 11, 2019
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    Pride and Prejudice, Staged

    October 26, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 2: Family Values

    January 29, 2019
  • book cover. An upraised fist of rebellion. Title "Fieldnotes on Allyship" is typeset underneath the fist.
    education,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Fieldnotes on Allyship is Launched!

    October 2, 2020 /

    Fieldnotes on Allyship is launched—an anthology of eighteen writers from three continents writing about allyship for the Black community.

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    REVIEW: Urban Apologetics

    April 6, 2021
    Several Haitian schoolchildren line up for a picture.

    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023
    Mixed Scrabble tiles

    Language and Memory

    February 10, 2025
  • essays,  faith,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills

    When Church Becomes the State

    September 27, 2020 /

    Sometimes we think that by making our country an explicitly religious one, we will solve our problems. But the results are always worse.

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    When You Fall

    September 21, 2019

    Of Course I’m Racist

    September 16, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 9: White Superiority

    February 19, 2019
  • Four sheep facing the viewer. They are standing in a field.
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    To My Evangelical Faith Family

    August 29, 2020 /

    To my white Evangelical family: You birthed me and raised me and gave me principles and sent me out into the world. I owe my character development to you. But now you’ve gone insane. I’ll just say this: a man, woman, or child does not need to be perfect in order to be treated as a human being who, according to our theology, bears the Imago Dei — the image of God. We were taught as Evangelicals to believe that all human beings are gloriously unique and valuable. This is embedded into our very theology of the Incarnation: we believe that Jesus was — and is! — not only God…

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    Bullhorns and Butterflies

    June 19, 2022

    New Year, New Labels

    January 1, 2019

    Maybe the Tree Is Bad

    April 16, 2021
  • Mug of coffee on a square of burlap. A journal and pencil lay next to it. There are coffee beans scattered around the cup and on top of the journal.
    #WakingUpWhite,  faith,  justice,  racism

    The Confidence of Ignorance

    July 25, 2020 /

    It’s really sad when white guys don’t get it. There’s a sui generis difference between the experience of Black Americans and everyone else. I was in a discussion with some people, including some white guys, one who demanded to include his own viewpoint into any discussion about the value of Black lives, often expressed by the phrase “Black Lives Matter.” It was . . . an interesting discussion that went nowhere, because the discussion started from ignorance by this gentleman and never went any further than what he already was convinced was the whole truth.  The sad thing isn’t so much that he didn’t listen. (Reader: he didn’t listen.) The sad thing is…

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 38: The Rugged Individual

    December 20, 2019
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 30: Feelings and the Culture of Niceness

    September 10, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 7: The GI Bill

    February 11, 2019
  • musings

    REVIEW: Just Mercy

    July 5, 2020 /

    I got this book for Christmas, and it sat on my pile of “To Read” books because there were a dozen or so books waiting for me before I could get to this one. But I picked it up, and started reading. This is an extraordinary book, not only for the masterful construction of a story (I’m always looking for that) but also for the deeply personal and intimate way of telling us this story that brings us into the lives of these men and women and children who have been pushed onto a conveyor belt that leads to the extraordinary cruelty of the death penalty in the United States.…

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    My Dear White People

    November 10, 2019

    Update on the Language Journey

    July 15, 2023
    Potter making a clay dish

    Pride and Prejudice, Staged

    October 26, 2019
  • Celebrate Recovery,  faith,  history,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills,  racism,  reviews

    REVIEW: So You Want to Talk about Race

    June 27, 2020 /

    So you want to write a review . . . I was initially reluctant to read this book by Ijeoma Uluo. I had heard it was “hard” to read. But I had purchased it, and had it sitting on my desk for a few months. “I’ll get to it.” One day. Just not today. So then I was challenged by a friend to read it. I did—and found out that my fears were unfounded. This is a deep, rich, emotionally transparent book about race and even . . . how to talk about race. I need to be absolutely clear here, as absolutely clear as Oluo is in her own…

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    Two women, one white, one Black, are having a conversation with each other. They're seated facing each other at a table next to a large window overlooking an urban setting.

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 45: Normalizing Race Talk

    May 9, 2020
    Two orange butterflies alight several thistle blossoms

    Bullhorns and Butterflies

    June 19, 2022

    In the Fields of the Lord

    February 12, 2019
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