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    Guest Post: What Now?

    December 4, 2014 /

    Posting this (slightly edited version) on behalf of someone who cannot post due to the circumstances of their life. I guess the question is, what now, after the Eric Garner verdict? The cops used an illegal choke-hold, one that they had been directed not to use. The coroner ruled Garner’s death a homicide. The police claimed they were arresting Garner for selling illegal cigarettes, none were found on him. The cop in question had prior police brutality charges that the city had to pay out for. All this was caught on tape, yet the Grand Jury decided not to indict. Ta-Nehisi Coates once wrote something to the effect that this…

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    Thinking about a White Response to Ferguson

    December 1, 2014 /

    I don’t usually reblog. But I’d like you to go here to read this. http://iambeggingmymothernottoreadthisblog.com/2014/11/27/race-ya/ Note that there are two instances of the “F” word, which might offend you, but then I have to ask, why does the fact that black men are being shot down at rates far out of proportion to their population not offend you far more?

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    What Can I Do to Help in Ferguson?

    November 27, 2014 /

    I am having a series of conversations with people who ask me (as if I’m an expert!) of what they can do to help with the situation in Ferguson. I’m always going to approach this from my grid as a Christian believer. So some of my answers come from my own faith in a powerful, merciful, and just God. But some of them are ordinary things anyone can do. First, if you’re a believer, you can pray. You can pray that God moves on the people of Ferguson, of St. Louis, of Missouri, of the entire United States. There are seriously wrong things going on, and as believers we must…

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    More thoughts on the Christian response to Ferguson

    November 25, 2014 /

    See. here’s the thing, Christians: we have an opportunity to speak out about injustice to our fellow humans, our fellow brothers and sisters in Christ, and we are largely silent or even supporting the whitewash in #Ferguson. We were so righteously angry over same-sex marriage and Chik-Fil-A. We were so righteously angry over a baker and a wedding photographer being told to obey the law. How dare people ask us to violate our consciences! But here we have yet another clear example of people here in these United States who do not have the assurance of their civil rights being protected and do not have the assurance that they will…

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    Science or Superstition—Ebola and Crowdsourcing Wisdom

    October 14, 2014 /

    I don’t pay much attention to the chatter on the news—I don’t watch the talking heads and don’t follow the conversations and popular topics. With that said, I see now that there is a enormous number of people who are being convinced that Ebola is some ginormous threat to The American Way of Life, and that hysteria is called for, and that the end is near. I’m sorry, but are you guys all nuts? Ebola is a deadly disease, yes. It spreads through human contact and exchange of bodily fluids. It kills about 90% of the people who are infected. It’s bad news. But it is not a monster of…

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    Image of God, Image of Man

    September 9, 2014 /

    I want a God who is small and careful and deliberate. Who sees the secret places and comes into them. Who sees the unchecked injustices of the world and comes to set them right, one broken life at a time. Who is loving and careful, patient and kind, faithful and truthful and giving. I want a God who can rescue the people I love and care for but who have no advocate of their own. I want a God who will walk beside them and bear them up, offering them hope and support and love, giving them all his attention and compassion. I want a God who is wise and…

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    Michael Brown and Ferguson—and Us

    August 17, 2014 /

    Every day people are born and people die. People marry, divorce, change jobs, have kids, watch those same kids move on to college and careers and family. These are all the ordinary things we expect are ours because we are good people, and fair, and play by the rules. Some people who have similar aspirations and hopes and dreams and us, however, are taught time and again that they must have no expectation of success and freedom and safety. They are considered, as a class, inferior, suspects in crime, complicit in social decay, willing agents of destruction and chaos and evil. They excluded from normal society, from jobs and housing…

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    Review: Silencing the Past: Power and the Production of History

    June 21, 2014 /

    Silencing the Past: Power and the Production of History by Michel-Rolph Trouillot My rating: 5 of 5 stars This is an excellent book, for many reasons. First, it’s a book about the history of the Western Hemisphere (mostly), centering on Haiti and San Souci, and then upon Columbus. Second, it’s a book about how history is determined. It’s not just a compendium of facts. History is developed and managed based upon certain facts and upon the suppression of other certain facts. Third, it’s a book about what history means, how facts are presented or suppressed, what the history of that history is. Fourth, it is simply an excellently written book.…

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    Review: A Confederacy of Dunces

    June 10, 2014 /

    A Confederacy of Dunces by John Kennedy Toole My rating: 4 of 5 stars Most excellent–funny, insightful, wacky. View all my reviews

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    Review: American Slavery, American Freedom

    June 6, 2014 /

    American Slavery, American Freedom by Edmund S. Morgan My rating: 5 of 5 stars Very nimble and clear writing for such a book packed with data and narrative. The author argues that the experience of the Virgina colonies show the natural and inevitable rise in slavery as an American solution to a very real problem of labor shortages, excess capacity, and open markets. View all my reviews

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    Review: Burning Uncle Tom’s Cabin

    June 5, 2014 /

    Burning Uncle Tom’s Cabin by Carl Waters My rating: 4 of 5 stars I was given this book to read for this review. But I would have read it anyway–it was enjoyable, fast-moving, and clearly written. This book is the tale of George Harris, his wife Eliza (of ice floe fame), son Harry, and those around him in antebellum slave-owning Kentucky and the free state of Ohio under the ministrations of both slavery and the Fugitive Slave Act. It is also a retelling of Harriet Beecher Stowe’s opus “Uncle Tom’s Cabin,” the book written by a little woman that started a great war. The story opens as George, a slave…

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    Broken Windows

    May 29, 2014 /

    When we have a broken window in our home, the first thing we do as responsible homeowners is to fix it. Later we might line up our kids to ask “Who did this?” Maybe we assign blame or figure out a way for the culprits to pay back what they cannot afford. But first, we fix the broken window, because leaving it broken leads to far greater damages. It’s like that with the controversial topic of reparations. It’s come up recently due to the fine work of historians and writers. Perhaps you’ve heard this discussion. Reparations is a word that incites near-immediate response, usually along the lines of “I had…

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    Review: Confessions of a Presidential Speechwriter

    May 28, 2014 /

    Confessions of a Presidential Speechwriter by Craig R. Smith My rating: 3 of 5 stars Note: I received this as a gift. This book is a good insight into the life and thoughts of the writer, Dr. Craig Smith, who has many talents and passions for life and politics. Dr. Smith, a professor of rhetoric and debate, gives great insights into the politicians of the late 20th and early 21 century, focusing on Republicans he served as speech-writer and advisor. I found it especially interesting when he talked about Senator Bob Packwood, as Dr. Craig worked closely with the senator for decades up through the time of the senator’s resignation…

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    The Case for Reparations

    May 22, 2014 /

    This is a phenomenal piece of writing. It will get a Pulitzer Prize. Read it now. http://www.theatlantic.com/features/archive/2014/05/the-case-for-reparations/361631/

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    Avoiding the Obvious

    May 6, 2014 /

    As Christians, we are to emulate the Lord. We are directly commanded by the Lord to assist the poor, the widow, the orphan, and those in prison. We are not told to interfere with people’s private lives (we’re directly told not to be busybodies). Millions of kids in the United States go to bed hungry every night. Millions of kids do not have a secure home to live in. We are a nation with the wealthiest Christians in history. These two things just are so jarring when positioned next to each other. Many American Christians spend their time making sure that women can’t control their bodies and gays can’t marry,…

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    Palin and Waterboarding

    April 29, 2014 /

    Palin and all those who cheered her sacrilegious jibe ought to be ashamed of themselves. For us Christians, baptism is the entry into new life. Palin invoked it to celebrate torture. Even if you don’t believe that waterboarding is torture, surely you agree that it should not be compared to baptism, and that such a comparison should be laughed at. What does it say about the character of a person that they could make that joking comparison, and that so many people would cheer for it. Nothing good — and nothing that does honor to the cause of Jesus Christ.  http://www.theamericanconservative.com/dreher/the-sacrilegious-sarah-palin/ I have nothing more to add.

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    Waterboarding As Baptism

    April 29, 2014 /

    “Oh, but you can’t offend [Islamic terrorists], can’t make them feel uncomfortable, not even a smidgen. Well, if I were in charge, they would know that waterboarding is how we baptize terrorists.” ~ Sarah Palin Well, no. This is not a Christian statement. This is an anti-Christian statement. Jesus, I must remind people, did not recommend torture as a means of conversion. People who say this type of stuff are not representing Christ. And again, where are the Christian voices speaking out against this perversion of their Christian faith?

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    Cliven Bundy, Donald Sterling, and You

    April 28, 2014 /

    Talk to me like I’m stupid: So recently some very ignorant people have made some very ignorant, small-minded, and unkind statements about people they apparently know nothing about. For Cliven Bundy, it’s his remarks about “the Negro” who was happier picking cotton. For Donald Sterling, it’s his remarks about not wanting Black customers/fans. Now, I get it that people say these things all the time, and it’s not strictly unusual for these things to be said. What gets me—and this is where you need to help me—why is it that conservatives are sticking up for these people and defending these truly, astonishingly ignorant and hurtful things? I see people posting…

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    The Closing of the American Heart

    February 24, 2014 /

    Recently there has been a move in America for Christians to demand the right to avoid serving people with whom they disagree theologically. The claim is made that by baking a cake, arranging flowers, or being a photographer at a wedding for a couple who is marrying outside the Christian tradition, the Christian is breaking his religion. I don’t know whether to laugh or cry at such an attitude. First—the Christian is providing a service. A Christian electrical company cannot withhold providing electricity to those with whom they disagree theologically. Likewise a Christian police officer cannot refuse to help someone with whom they disagree. A Christian doctor, teacher, entrepreneur, shoe-shiner,…

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    Review: The Beautiful Struggle: A Father, Two Sons, and an Unlikely Road to Manhood

    February 16, 2014 /

    The Beautiful Struggle: A Father, Two Sons, and an Unlikely Road to Manhood by Ta-Nehisi Coates My rating: 5 of 5 stars African-Americans have struggled to acquire their voice in American culture. We have had uncertain biographies and stories written by others; in the last century we had the eruption of Harlem when black voices began to be more fully heard. It’s still difficult to write those stories, but more and more black Americans are telling their lives, not to justify them or to make their unknown presence known, but to say “I am here and this is what I think and feel. Take me on my own words; accept…

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    Review: The Control of Nature

    February 16, 2014 /

    The Control of Nature by John McPhee My rating: 4 of 5 stars Very good, entertaining stories of three attempts by men and women to control nature–to control the Mississippi, to control the volcanoes and lava of Iceland, and to control the floods and fires of the San Gabriel Mountains in Los Angeles. View all my reviews

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    Review: Zulu Heart

    January 30, 2014 /

    Zulu Heart by Steven Barnes My rating: 5 of 5 stars This is just a fine book. It is the sequel, of course, to Lion’s Blood, but I have to hand it to Mr. Barnes in that the story and the characters have advanced. We still have Kai and Aiden, brothers beneath the skin in a nation on the North American continent where things are delightfully awry compared to today–somehow in the distant past it was the African nations, and not the Europeans, who conquered the world with learning and art and culture and military prowess. Kai is now functioning as the Wakil of his estate-empire, a slaveowner of northern…

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    Review: Between the Bridge and the River

    January 6, 2014 /

    Between the Bridge and the River by Craig Ferguson My rating: 1 of 5 stars This is a dreadful, unfunny, pretentious pile of trash. I got to 48 pages and stopped reading–there is not one bit of wit or freshness in this book. It is written because the guy has a TV personality. But there is nothing of value so far. View all my reviews

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    Review: Very Far Away from Anywhere Else

    January 4, 2014 /

    Very Far Away from Anywhere Else by Ursula K. Le Guin My rating: 5 of 5 stars My lord, this is a very fine book. Ms. Le Guin does not write one word more than necessary, but within the laconic toolset she writes a story. There is Owen, and there is Natalie. Owen is intelligent but not quite smart. Natalie is talented but not able to communicate her vision. They stumble into each other, part, and come together more fiercely. They learn that they themselves must learn who they are. It is all there in 90 or so pages with generous margins, but it is _all there_. The only thing…

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    Review: Lion’s Blood

    November 28, 2013 /

    Lion’s Blood by Steven Barnes My rating: 5 of 5 stars I was not prepared to love this book as much as I did. This was recommended to me by a friend, and I picked it up somewhat as a curiousity. I like sci-fi and alternate histories, and thought this might be like dozens of others I’ve read. It is the telling of an America where Alexander the Great didn’t die, and didn’t go on to conquer the East but instead conquered the West, setting up the rise of the Abyssinian and Egyptian kingdoms, changing the course of Western Civilization, and bringing about the discovery of the American continents by…

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    The Utter Normalcy of Human Beings in America

    October 14, 2013 /

    Recently someone posted on a website their observations about Black Americans, that they were curious and frustrated at how Black Americans, religious and hard-working and future-oriented, would so often and so blindly pick the Democrats when they went into the voting booth. Frustrated that Black Americans were so lazy and uneducated, so “urban” and so exotic. I responded with the following. I don’t expect the person to read it, much less take my advice. But I thought it a useful summary of how to educate yourself to understand other people without having to do much work except read and think a bit. Do you know any actual Black families? Go…

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    The Butterfly’s Way: Voices from the Haitian Dyaspora in the United States by Edwidge Danticat My rating: 5 of 5 stars Really very good. This is a collection of tales of the Haitian Diaspora–those who fled from Haiti for various reasons to settle elsewhere, and their reactions both to their new homes and their home in memory. It was not what I expected, due to my own ignorance. I expected it to be much more a collection of writings by people just as if they were journaling, but these are more than that. Yes, it is somewhat like a collection of journals, but the stories are thoughtful, and insightful, and…

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