eulogy

  • eulogy,  faith,  justice,  racism

    Muhammad Ali 1942-2016

    Ali was incomprehensible to me at the time. I was alive and aware when he changed his name and religion, and when he spoke against the United States’ foreign policy and wars. It was incomprehensible to me that any American would do anything but support the United States as-is, especially to the point where any alleged mistakes are not talked about in polite company. It was incomprehensible to me that anyone would change their religion from Christianity to Islam, and be so confident and positive about it. It was incomprehensible to me that he was so universally admired, respected, beloved by so many people when he was so adamantly anti-American.…

  • Celebrate Recovery,  challenges,  essays,  eulogy,  Life Recovery Skills,  musings,  questions

    A Poem for Advent

    America 2012 Twenty children were shot   Charlotte Bacon, 6and six adults in one of   Daniel Barden, 7the greatest tragedies   Olivia Engel, 6in American history.    Josephine Gay, 7Unfortunately, it was   Ana M. Marquez-Greene, 6not the greatest tragedy,   Dylan Hockley, 6for we have had mass   Madeleine F. Hsu, 6shootings in Columbine   Catherine V. Hubbard, 6and Virginia Tech and   Chase Kowalski, 7Aurora and Portland and…   Jesse Lewis, 6The list goes on and on,   James Mattioli, 6and while we are sometimes   Grace McDonnell, 7speechless and sometimes    Emilie Parker, 6saddened, it is never enough   Jack Pinto, 6to move us to take action.   Noah Pozner, 6We think we are powerless   Caroline Previdi, 6against guns,…

  • Celebrate Recovery,  essays,  eulogy,  Life Recovery Skills,  musings,  writing

    Mirror, Mirror on the Wall

    There is a great clip on YouTube, where Bob Newhart is a therapist who attempts to help a lady with a problem. For whatever reason, she can’t stop thinking certain negative thoughts, and that bothers her. Bob’s advice is classic, accurate, but powerless: he tells her to just “stop it.” As if knowing something is the key to doing something. Maybe that works for you, but it doesn’t work for me. I mean, the being-told-what-to-do part. Most of us who are adults cannot be made to do anything we really don’t want to do. We usually do what we’ve always done, and try to skate by on a good explanation.…