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challenges, essays, faith, history, justice, Life Recovery Skills, musings, questions, racism, writing

A Jury of One’s Peers

You may (or may have not) seen video circulating recently showing the last moments of black American men shot by American cops. Some of my friends think we should see…

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July 7, 2016
#WakingUpWhite, justice, Life Recovery Skills, racism

#WakingUpWhite Chapter 26: Surviving Versus Thriving

In this chapter Ms. Irving recalls a famous experiment conducted in 1968 by Ms. Jane Elliott on a class of third graders, and then repeated in other circumstances with adults…

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June 12, 2019
musings

A Gospel for Christians in a Time of Charleston

You know, my brothers and sisters in Christ, I have heard you say for years, for decades really, that you are trying to find a way to get people to…

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June 19, 2015
challenges, history, justice, writing

Respect–Given and Earned, Not Demanded and Taken

To say to a bank “I expect you to keep my money safe and not just throw it willy-nilly into the street” isn’t disrespect. It’s respecting the word of the…

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August 29, 2016
musings

Waterboarding As Baptism

“Oh, but you can’t offend [Islamic terrorists], can’t make them feel uncomfortable, not even a smidgen. Well, if I were in charge, they would know that waterboarding is how we…

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April 29, 2014
  • Celebrate Recovery,  essays,  Life Recovery Skills,  musings,  writing

    Losing Faith

    April 3, 2011 /

    Have you ever done all the right things, checked all the boxes, filled out all the forms, signed on the dotted line—and still experienced disaster?

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 46: Whole Again

    May 25, 2020
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    Making the Past the Past

    August 1, 2020

    Wyte Innocence

    March 28, 2022
  • essays,  musings,  writing

    Telling

    March 13, 2011 /

    Maybe it’s that we’re human, but we can all tell our story. Not all of us can tell it with the same degree of passion or generate the same level of interest, but we can usually describe an event and what it meant to us.

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    A Place We Cannot Enter

    October 14, 2019

    When Church Becomes the State

    September 27, 2020
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    When We Don’t Want to Know

    September 28, 2019
  • essays,  musings,  writing

    Sometimes the Good Guys Win

    February 8, 2011 /

    How come I can want to do the right thing and be, inside myself, a good person, but both the outside and the inside are broken? How can the universe display such beauty and at the same time such brutality?

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    Making the Past the Past

    August 1, 2020

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 1: What Wasn’t Said

    January 27, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 9: White Superiority

    February 19, 2019
  • musings,  WIP,  writing

    The Right Book Is the Wrong Book

    February 2, 2011 /

    One of the best books I've read so far on writing has been one to say you're probably a crummy writer and you should stay far away from the publishing world.

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    When You Fall

    September 21, 2019
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    Juneteenth, Reparations, and What Do I Do About It?

    June 19, 2019

    Great Expectations

    June 4, 2019
  • writing

    Beyond the Bars

    January 25, 2011 /

    I meet with a group of writers every Monday night, and we usually have a short-story competition: we get a writing prompt and we have to develop a story from it in 15 minutes. This is my short story; the writing prompt is the first line in bold, below. Note that I did make a change to the name in the story because the original name was the same as someone I know. Also note that this is the only editing change I made after the story was written. This doesn’t mean that the story is perfect, but I wanted you to see the first draft of what will become…

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 36: The Dominant White Culture

    November 21, 2019
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    All the Years Like Yesterdays Departed

    September 11, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 1: What Wasn’t Said

    January 27, 2019
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    Celebrate Recovery,  essays,  Life Recovery Skills,  musings,  writing

    Surfing the Avalanche

    February 15, 2010 /

    This week think about the ways you are avoiding help and change. Maybe you think you can do it alone, or maybe you think you must. I can't convince you outright, I think, to step out. If you're convinced of your own hopelessness, then what are my words going to do to change that? But if there's the slightest hint of light, the weakest desire for change, I urge you to find a group who will love you unconditionally and support you without shame.

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    Making Good in Trouble

    March 29, 2022
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 38: The Rugged Individual

    December 20, 2019

    Feats of Clay

    December 31, 2018
  • humor

    Jean-Paul Sartre’s Cooking Diary

    October 10, 2006 /

    In which the ennui of existence translates to a series of uninspired yet necessary meals.

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    Mwen damou pou Vava – a story

    March 17, 2023
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    Maurice Sixto and His Stories

    March 27, 2023

    Trying Every Doorknob

    February 15, 2019
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