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Love of Money, Love of Power

Love of Money, Love of Power Originally published May 23, 2015 Scripture says that “the love of money is the root of all evil.” I think we can amend that…

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May 23, 2015
faith, Food, history, kreyòl ayisyen, language

Seeing with a New Tongue

in those decades of following Jesus, I’ve listened to uncountable sermons and Bible studies, often led by people with great earnestness, who have said “oh, if you only knew the…

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August 27, 2023
American Exceptionalism, challenges, education, kreyòl ayisyen, language

Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

I felt so slow and ignorant. I’m not that advanced, not at all, and I am a slow learner who is just not going to get much further along than…

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May 3, 2023
faith, justice, racism

Who Then Is My Neighbor?

(ETA: A much better response can be found here: https://mereorthodoxy.com/and-who-is-my-neighbor/) If you’ve been around the New Testament to any great length, you are probably familiar with the story of the…

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December 8, 2018
kreyòl ayisyen, language

Let’s talk about what, exactly

Let’s talk about what, exactly. So kreyòl has a whole interesting way to form words of interrogation/asking in ways that remind me of Esperanto. The key to the base of…

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April 16, 2022
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    An hour of conversation

    June 11, 2022 /

    So this last week (Tuesday) I had my first full hour of tutoring in kreyòl, and zanmi m, it was glorious! We spoke almost entirely in kreyòl, with just a few lapses, mostly by me when I was trying to ask a question (and I can and should ask them in kreyòl!) or when I was fumbling for the right word or reacting to my mistakes. (I mumble to myself that I should know the word!) My tutor a few times jumped in to explain a new word or word usage on some tricky parts, but really, as horrible as my accent is, and as hacky as my grammar is,…

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    Maurice Sixto and His Stories

    March 27, 2023
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    Looking back 300 days

    December 16, 2022
    Two Haitian children carrying yellow plastic water buckets on their heads. Behind them is a small water supply building with its door open. In the background are more people carrying yellow plastic water buckets on their heads.

    Great Unexpectations

    January 28, 2024
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    Practice makes for better practice

    June 6, 2022 /

    I’m kinda excited for what’s about to happen. I started this journey back in February/March 2022. (The first week was really the setting into the process and it was a blur.) Duolingo was a great help to me to get me used to the sounds and grammar and words, but it is not really a useful tool for conversations for this language. Unlike other, more broadly used languages, Haitian Creole (kreyòl ayisyen) doesn’t have the bells and whistles such as conversations and stories and the like. So I’m paying full price and not getting all that other languages get. (But given that it’s in Beta and I am willing to…

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    Binary confidence (Binè konfyans)

    January 11, 2023

    Ki kote m ye?

    July 23, 2023

    Bogs and marshes and slogs oh my!

    January 31, 2023
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    At long last, language

    June 1, 2022 /

    91 days from now you could be exactly where you are, or you could be deep into the study of a new language, ready to connect with people!

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    My First Foray into the Field

    November 16, 2023

    2-3-5 are prime days for learning

    October 24, 2022
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    Language and Memory

    February 10, 2025
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    At long last language?

    May 31, 2022 /

    WE DID IT! Today was the first time that my tutor and I had an actual conversation in kreyòl! Now, to be fair, after ten or so weeks it wasn’t beautiful and it wasn’t entirely correct. But we did talk about “stuff” and I was able to form sentences and respond to questions with almost no help on a missing word. I’m still terribly wrong on word order, and sometimes I just don’t “get” it. But we are doing well! And today we hammered out the meaning of sentences such as “Wi, se dòktè mwen ye,” which if you know the individual words can be confusing. But it’s one form…

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    Liv kreyòl ayisyen fini!

    December 8, 2022
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    Two Things

    June 29, 2024

    2-3-5 are prime days for learning

    October 24, 2022
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    Lordy, there are TAPES

    May 20, 2022 /

    Okay man, it’s getting serious now. In the previous weeks of lessons with my tutor, we did a lot of work on elementary parts of kreyòl—nouns, articles, verbs, connections, sounds, spelling, the alphabet, the numbers 1-100, then how to count higher, and some work on simple tenses (participle, past). A few of the lessons felt a little much, in that they were using some alternate ways of saying things, and that’s fine! That’s how it should be—show me some ways to say something. But then . . . we turn to the narratives of four people living in four towns in Haiti, talking about their families, their birthplaces, their jobs…

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    The Enchantment of Creole

    December 12, 2022
    A person climbs a sheer cliff.

    Day 360 : Se Papa Li, Se Pa Pa Li

    February 18, 2023
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    De Kestyon, Reponn (Two Questions, Answered)

    January 26, 2023
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    When They See Us—Buffalo Edition

    May 16, 2022 /

    Perhaps white people's thoughts and prayers and good intentions aren't enough when their Black friends are asking for love and dignity.

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    The Barley Soup Recipe

    January 2, 2019
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    Be Like Betty White

    January 2, 2022
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    Hard Questions, Hard Answers

    June 20, 2021
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    Countdown to learning Kreyòl

    May 15, 2022 /

    Okay, it’s been, what, ten weeks? I’ve found better and better resources to learn kreyòl ayisyen, and while I am in no way fluent, I was able to have a conversation with my tutor last week. Now, I did write out the narrative in English so I had a good idea of what I’d be talking about, but I translated on the fly from my English text to kreyòl, sometimes stumbling, sometimes mixing up sounds. (I don’t know what the confusion is called, but I would try to say something like “etidye” and it would come out “editye,” which are two different words and meanings.) I’m having trouble with size-comparisons…

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    At long last, language

    June 1, 2022

    Bogs and marshes and slogs oh my!

    January 31, 2023

    M toujou ap aprann – I’m still learning

    January 20, 2025
  • American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  racism

    Wherefore art thou, Evangelicals?

    May 11, 2022 /

    As America evolved as an independent nation freeing itself from certain connections with Britain such as political and economic control, so did the church, centering itself in the power and people of America who ran the nation, and inescapably represented their cultural values through religious language and theology.

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    Beliefs and Behaviors

    August 19, 2021

    I Am MLK Jr

    October 21, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 4: Optimism

    February 2, 2019
  • musings

    SPEAKASY: An interview with Elyse Douglas

    May 4, 2022 /

    I had the opportunity to interview Elyse Douglas about her latest book, SPEAKEASY, published by Broadback. I appreciate that she gave so generously of her time when she could be working on the sequel!

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    When You Fall

    September 21, 2019

    I’m Just Here to Dance

    February 16, 2019

    Six Freedoms Black People Do Not Have Under a White Supremacy

    April 29, 2019
  • reviews

    SPEAKEASY, by Elyse Douglass

    May 4, 2022 /

    Roxie Raines is a girl out of time in 1925s New York City. So how did someone from 2019 end up in a speakeasy, anyway?

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 2: Family Values

    January 29, 2019
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    REVIEW: Punch Me Up to the Gods

    September 15, 2021
    A white man in a hat smiles at a white woman who smiles back.

    REVIEW: Good White Racist?2

    May 24, 2021
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    Maybe a corner is turned

    April 20, 2022 /

    I’ve been hard at work with my lessons in kreyòl on Duolingo, and on paper it looks good—Level 21 / 25! Super, right? Only I’m frustrated because it still seems so atomized. I’m learning words and some phrases, but Duolingo has limited flexibility to say things in other ways. For example, “Sa k pase?” which means “How’s it going?” (“What’s passing/happening?”). But the more common phrase in Haiti is “Sa k ap fèt?” which means “What’s up?” (“What’s the festival?”). Or even the short “Anfòm?” with the response “Anfòm” (“Fit” / “Okay?” “Fit” / “Yes”). It’s not wrong to say “Sa k ap pase?” It’s fine! But it’s more common…

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    At long last, language

    June 1, 2022

    Seeing with a New Tongue

    August 27, 2023
    Two matching windows, side by side, with matching shutters. There is a flowerpot in each window.

    De Kestyon, Reponn (Two Questions, Answered)

    January 26, 2023
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    The case of the missing person

    April 17, 2022 /

    Today’s lesson brought up what I’d seen in the past in a few lessons here and there. Let me show you this sentence in kreyòl: L ap akompli li. Based on what I’ve learned, the word for “he,” “she,” and “it” is “li.” Sometimes (well, to be honest, probably 98% of the time!) the “li” is shortened to just “l” when followed by a vowel sound, such as the word “ap,” which turns the verb “akompli” (accomplish) into the participle form “accomplishing.”  And it’s not a perfect 1:1 ratio. Sometimes it looks like it can’t be shortened, and I am not certain of the rules. I do know that the…

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    Short stories and lengthy processes

    January 16, 2023
    Several Haitian schoolchildren line up for a picture.

    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023

    Ki kote m ye?

    July 23, 2023
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    Let’s talk about what, exactly

    April 16, 2022 /

    Let’s talk about what, exactly. So kreyòl has a whole interesting way to form words of interrogation/asking in ways that remind me of Esperanto. The key to the base of question-words is “ki” (pronounced “kee” but with a short vowel sound that’s hard to show in English—think of it in the way you’d say in Spanish “aqui”). So “ki” by itself is kinda just “what” or whichki tòti == which turtles? ki + moun == what people == whokilès is also “who” [I think the “lès” is an agglomerative noun of some kind, like “people,” but I make it a rule that I don’t try to go further than where…

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    A Haitian man wearing a plaid tan shirt stands on a hillside looking over the valleys and hills below him.

    Ayiti se yon lide—Haiti is an idea

    January 3, 2023

    At long last, language

    June 1, 2022

    Binary confidence (Binè konfyans)

    January 11, 2023
  • American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  Celebrate Recovery,  history,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills,  racism

    Not Your Place, Not Your Time

    April 15, 2022 /

    White people, do not go into Black spaces to help change the conversation or add your very important opinion. It is just not the time and place for that.

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 4: Optimism

    February 2, 2019

    Wyte Innocence

    March 28, 2022
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 38: The Rugged Individual

    December 20, 2019
  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    The mystery of the “the”

    April 6, 2022 /

    There has been a couple of things I’ve been keeping notes on as I’m learning, and one of them is the mystery of the final “a/an/nan/lan” in some sentences referring to “my thing.” For example,“Èske ou bezwen pa m nan?” which is to mean “Do you want mine?” It parses out fairly easily as “Do” (Èske) “you” (ou) “want” (bezwen) “my thing” (pa m, short for pa / pou mwen, meaning “for me”), but that final “nan” was just mysterious. In this context “nan” is standing for the idea of “that” or “the.” Example, “dam nan” (or “dam lan”) is “the lady.” You can see the connection with “Dame” and…

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    The Real 300

    December 19, 2022
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    My Year So Far

    June 1, 2024

    Day 270 of the Infinite Journey

    November 19, 2022
  • American Exceptionalism,  Celebrate Recovery,  faith,  history,  Life Recovery Skills,  racism

    Making Good in Trouble

    March 29, 2022 /

    “Making good trouble” means stirring things up so that we do not become complacent about our situation and resigned to injustice

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    Juneteenth, Reparations, and What Do I Do About It?

    June 19, 2019

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    March 3, 2019

    Moral Switzerlands

    July 15, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  Celebrate Recovery,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills,  violence

    Wyte Innocence

    March 28, 2022 /

    Wyte people can’t be accused of bias or wrong unless there is exceedingly overwhelming “proof,” and even then we will go down fighting and insisting that we were not wrong

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  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    What’s mine is mine, I guess

    March 26, 2022 /

    Week 4 of learning Haitian Creole and things are kicking up a notch. Now it’s getting into “ownership” (how to say that something is mine or yours, such as “my father” or “your cat” or even “mine” or “yours.” It is not what I expected, and previously used words now are used in very new ways. It is at once easier—no new words to learn!—and harder—hey, some words have entirely different meaning now! Which is like English, of course, but I’ve been speaking/writing/hearing English for my whole life, and it just “makes sense” that English can verb nouns with ease & we pick it up. So, onward and upward! Èske…

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    Mwen damou pou Vava – a story

    March 17, 2023

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    November 20, 2022

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    June 1, 2022
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    Jesus as Emperor

    March 22, 2022 /

    The vision of Jesus for empire Christianity in our Sunday Schools and sermons and theologies is really an irrelevant Jesus who does not match the Jesus of the texts.

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    What makes someone a human?

    March 2, 2023
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 29: Intent and Impact

    July 24, 2019
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  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    Starting point

    March 20, 2022 /

    About three weeks ago I was encouraged by some Haitian friends to start using Duolingo. They knew of my interest in learning their language, and they had talked with me about the differences in the French and Haitian Creole languages, but there really wasn’t a place that would make it easy for me to learn kreyòl ayisyen. Then Duolingo announced they were releasing their course on Haitian Creole! They urged me to sign up, and so I did. I’m now about three weeks in, and it’s been a whirlwind. Here are some observations: Learning a language isn’t just about learning words. It’s about learning rhythms and logic and meanings of…

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    De Kestyon, Reponn (Two Questions, Answered)

    January 26, 2023

    Duolingo fini!

    November 27, 2022

    Binary confidence (Binè konfyans)

    January 11, 2023
  • A man works to repair a church window.
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  Celebrate Recovery,  faith,  family,  history,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills,  racism,  remodeling

    On Deconstruction

    March 17, 2022 /

    For the vast, vast majority of people, “deconstruction” is a good thing. Deconstruction can result in something far different and, in my opinion, far better than, white Evangelical Christianity.

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    April 16, 2021
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    May 14, 2019
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    June 19, 2019
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    American Exceptionalism,  Celebrate Recovery,  history,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills

    When Our Bibles Get It Wrong

    February 27, 2022 /

    The history of the church is our confidence in rightly understanding until we realize how terribly wrong we’ve misunderstood everything.

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    April 8, 2023
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  • kreyòl ayisyen,  language

    The journey begins . . .

    February 21, 2022 /

    Today I started my first lessons in Haitian Creole (“kreyòl ayisyen”) using Duolingo. Wish me luck!

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    I begin “Chita Pa Bay”

    December 31, 2022
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    June 29, 2024
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    December 16, 2022
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    To Be Human Again

    January 25, 2022 /

    Sometimes the arts can entertain us. Disney has surely figured out that formula. But sometimes . . . the arts can open something up to us that we didn’t ever think we needed to see and learn.

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    Chèmèt chèmètrès

    August 11, 2024
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    REVIEW: Anxious to Talk About It

    January 17, 2022 /

    You will not find this to be the “answer book.” It’s not designed for that. This is a book that invites us to join in the community, in the discussion, in the journey.

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    December 28, 2020
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    Be Like Betty White

    January 2, 2022 /

    Betty White, a white woman in an industry that empowered only white men, stood up for what's right. It cost her the job that she loved. But she did it, not “anyway,” but “because.” She did it because of her own moral integrity.

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    REVIEW: Subversive Witness: Scripture’s Call to Leverage Privilege

    December 12, 2021 /

    The book’s subtitle hints at what’s to come: we are all granted some level of privilege in life that others do have; those who have the most privilege are called to use that privilege

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    April 18, 2023
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