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#WakingUpWhite, American Exceptionalism, history, justice, Life Recovery Skills, racism

#WakingUpWhite Chapter 11: Headwinds and Tailwinds

“Skin color itself is not the barrier; it’s the beliefs attached to it. And beliefs, compared to birth dates or other more tangible barriers, are harder to pinpoint and also…

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February 26, 2019
American Civil War, musings

Should We Provoke White Supremacists?

Recently I responded (several times!) to comments about the fine, fine speech given by Mayor Landrieu of New Orleans at the removal of four monuments/statues which had been raised originally…

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May 27, 2017
faith, history, justice, racism, writing

Fieldnotes on Allyship: Now in Print

It is a truth universally acknowledged that America is centered on the success, promotion, pleasure, and whims of white people.

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October 10, 2020
musings

TyWanza Sanders

I want to share more about someone who was killed this week in Charleston. TyWanza Sanders. He was 26, a graduate from college, and a young man on the cusp…

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June 19, 2015
#WakingUpWhite, American Exceptionalism, Celebrate Recovery, faith, justice, Life Recovery Skills, racism

#WakingUpWhite Chapter 31: Courageous Conversations

Learning to listen and speak across differences Before I start into this chapter, I wanted to update this series on something that is related to this journey. I took part…

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October 6, 2019
  • faith,  history,  racism,  violence

    When the Good News Isn’t So Good

    December 10, 2021 /

    We have to face the fact that Christians often pick up odious behavior traits and exhibit them while singing songs of love and praise to Jesus of Nazareth.

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    I Am MLK Jr

    October 21, 2019

    The Cross and the Gun

    December 3, 2021

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 42: Solidarity and Accountability

    March 16, 2020
  • faith,  justice,  racism,  violence

    The Cross and the Gun

    December 3, 2021 /

    A lot of what passes for discipleship and church membership in America is lacking in this demand to lay down our lives before Jesus and to cast aside the devil and all his works.

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    De Kestyon, Reponn (Two Questions, Answered)

    January 26, 2023

    Moral Switzerlands

    July 15, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 16: Logos and Stereotypes

    March 19, 2019
  • Black Lives Matter,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    REVIEW: Shoutin’ in the Fire

    November 10, 2021 /

    I had to read this slowly, thoughtfully, with many pauses and breaks. There have been books I’ve read through in one sitting, sometimes because they are so fast paced that they demand my continued attention until I am done. Sometimes it’s over a few days. But this book . . . this book was something I’d pick up, read some pages, and then become so full of feelings that I had to put it down. To think a little. Process what was going on. Try to understand what was happening as the part of me I recognize as “me” was encountering this most remarkable book. Danté has written a book…

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    REVIEW: Good White Racist?

    May 24, 2021
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    When we resist, we resist completely

    April 8, 2023
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    REVIEW: Good White Racist?2

    May 24, 2021
  • American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    When You See Their Truth

    November 1, 2021 /

    Whatever your beliefs are about redemption and salvation and even universalism—Jesus was always with those who are most despised and feared by Evangelicals. They’re the people he had meals with. Their homes were his resting place. They were whom he wept for.

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    Juneteenth, Reparations, and What Do I Do About It?

    June 19, 2019
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    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023
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    History as Cassandra

    August 30, 2022
  • Black Lives Matter,  justice

    REVIEW: The Secret Lives of Church Ladies

    October 12, 2021 /

    These are the stories of Black women living lives as Black women with no one else as their betters, let alone their equals.

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    REVIEW: Subversive Witness: Scripture’s Call to Leverage Privilege

    December 12, 2021

    My First Foray into the Field

    November 16, 2023
    A white man in a hat smiles at a white woman who smiles back.

    REVIEW: Good White Racist?

    May 24, 2021
  • A woman yells through a megaphone
    faith,  housekeeping,  justice

    Which Way?

    October 9, 2021 /

    Your faith is about your personal relationship with your values, and it should not matter in the slightest whether anyone knows why you behave as you do when you behave better because of your faith.

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    This Do

    April 1, 2021

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 16: Logos and Stereotypes

    March 19, 2019

    Feats of Clay

    December 31, 2018
  • A Black man, centered, is being pushed by the hands of an off-screen person
    Black Lives Matter,  justice,  racism

    The White Voice in Black Conversations

    September 19, 2021 /

    There seems always to be that moment when the white participant says something that is simply too much to handle.

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    Great Unexpectations

    January 28, 2024
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    Be Like Betty White

    January 2, 2022
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    When We Hide the Past in Plain Sight

    July 14, 2025
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    Black Lives Matter,  racism,  reviews

    REVIEW: Punch Me Up to the Gods

    September 15, 2021 /

    We learn, slowly, how to gather the people around us who will care for us and who will give us some space in their own lives.

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    Hard Questions, Hard Answers

    June 20, 2021
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    When the Pot Gets It Wrong About the Kettle

    September 23, 2023
    A Black woman looks at the camera. We see her brown eyes and brown skin.

    When We See Them

    October 24, 2024
  • American Exceptionalism,  faith,  justice,  questions,  writing

    Beliefs and Behaviors

    August 19, 2021 /

    The Jesus of the texts doesn't encourage harm for others—and the opponents of health protocols aren't demonstrating the person of the texts.

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 37: Boxes and Labels

    November 29, 2019

    Words and Deeds

    March 3, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 15: The Whole Story

    March 14, 2019
  • Sihouette of man walking toward light
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  justice,  racism

    Shadows on the Wall

    July 15, 2021 /

    CRT is about systems, not individuals. Systems are developed as shortcuts for lengthy processes so that we don’t spend all our time trying to figure out how to hand multiple situations and not have disparate outcomes.

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    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023

    Carefully Taught, Thoroughly Educated

    October 21, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 10: The Melting Pot

    February 22, 2019
  • Black Lives Matter,  humor,  justice,  racism,  reviews

    REVIEW: Sure, I’ll Be Your Black Friend

    June 25, 2021 /

    I’ve read many books this year, some of them similar to his in that they are life stories. This is the first one that I finished where I wanted to have more.

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    Black and White; Truth and Lies

    June 13, 2025

    When They See Us—Buffalo Edition

    May 16, 2022
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    When the Pot Gets It Wrong About the Kettle

    September 23, 2023
  • Brass key sitting on fallen leaves
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  faith,  justice,  racism

    Hard Questions, Hard Answers

    June 20, 2021 /

    Jesus gets to the heart of the matter, which is simply you can’t follow Jesus if you have more important things than Jesus.

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    When Our Bibles Get It Wrong

    February 27, 2022
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 32: Getting Over Myself

    October 14, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 35: If Only You’d Be More Like Me

    November 15, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Real but Imaginary Threats

    June 19, 2021 /

    Much ink will be spilled in the next few months or even years about the topic of Critical Race Theory (CRT), both by those who think they support it and those who think they oppose it

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    White Jesus, Bible Jesus: Pick One

    November 14, 2019

    The Fear of Transparency

    June 5, 2021

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 20: My Robin Hood Syndrome

    April 9, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism,  writing

    The Fear of Transparency

    June 5, 2021 /

    The myth of white success also develops the myth of white innocence. All the successes were due to white efforts that others seemed unable to copy; all the events of terror and destruction were minimalized and forgotten. And white innocence was preserved & confirmed for a people who could gladly declare their devotion to America as the land of “liberty and justice for all.”

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    History as Cassandra

    August 30, 2022

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 12: Icebergs

    March 2, 2019
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    Shadows on the Wall

    July 15, 2021
  • A white man in a hat smiles at a white woman who smiles back.
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  Books,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    REVIEW: Good White Racist?

    May 24, 2021 /

    As your friend, I need to tell you something about myself that I also see in you, and it’s something that’s bringing harm to people.

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    Entertainment Matters

    February 23, 2019

    When the Past Tries to Reclaim the Present

    March 13, 2019
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    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023
  • A white man in a hat smiles at a white woman who smiles back.
    American Exceptionalism,  Black Lives Matter,  Books,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism,  reviews

    REVIEW: Good White Racist?2

    May 24, 2021 /

    It’s not necessarily an easy book to read, although it is written with a clear, bracing, compassionate style. It will be hard to read because it is like having someone sit you down and say, “As your friend, I need to tell you something about myself that I also see in you, and it’s something that’s bringing harm to people.”

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 35: If Only You’d Be More Like Me

    November 15, 2019

    Not Your Place, Not Your Time

    April 15, 2022
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    We Must See People in Color

    January 22, 2021
  • American flag, backlighted so that a white cross appears on the blue canton with white stars
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    The Devil Is a Christian Nationalist

    May 23, 2021 /

    There is no divine right for Christians to control the government. There is no place in the Constitution for Christians to be given charge of the government to rule as “Christians.”

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 38: The Rugged Individual

    December 20, 2019
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 29: Intent and Impact

    July 24, 2019

    Making Good in Trouble

    March 29, 2022
  • A Black woman and a white woman look down at an unseen fire. One is holding a stick with a marshmallow on it.
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    REVIEW: The Black Friend: On Being a Better White Person

    May 20, 2021 /

    Absolutely great. Frank, honest, funny, touching, real. Frederick Joseph here is at once wonderfully endearing and approachable and also blunt and direct, someone who is self-possessed and self-aware, and someone who is going to be a great friend for whomever will let him be exactly that. I found myself laughing on quite a few pages, but almost in the next line wincing or even blurting out “oh my god.” There is so much truth here, and great observations, and the definite proclamation of “I am a man,” much in the spirit of the resisters of the 1960s. I appreciated so much the willingness to go into the paint, as it…

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    Hope

    March 6, 2019

    REVIEW: Just Mercy

    July 5, 2020

    Trying Every Doorknob

    February 15, 2019
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    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  Life Recovery Skills

    REVIEW: Jesus and John Wayne

    May 19, 2021 /

    Du Mez answers the question “What happened to white Evangelicals between Clinton and Trump?” with provocative, well-researched data to show the inevitability of the election results in 2016—and 2020.

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 40: Bull in a China Shop

    January 26, 2020
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 29: Intent and Impact

    July 24, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 20: My Robin Hood Syndrome

    April 9, 2019
  • American Exceptionalism,  justice,  racism

    Maybe the Tree Is Bad

    April 16, 2021 /

    If policing is such a difficult skill that it results in the killing of Black civilians again and again then perhaps the problem is not the civilians.

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    Believe

    February 1, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 12: Icebergs

    March 2, 2019
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    Shadows on the Wall

    July 15, 2021
  • Books,  education,  faith,  reviews

    REVIEW: Urban Apologetics

    April 6, 2021 /

    This is a solid book and a solid resource for any Christian, but it is focused on the needs of the Black Christian in today’s America.

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    REVIEW: Good White Racist?2

    May 24, 2021

    If I love you, I have to make you conscious of the things you don’t see

    January 26, 2019

    REVIEW: Subversive Witness: Scripture’s Call to Leverage Privilege

    December 12, 2021
  • faith,  family,  justice,  musings,  racism

    This Do

    April 1, 2021 /

    There is nothing that white American Christians have or want as human beings that our Black brothers and sisters do not want.

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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 45: Normalizing Race Talk

    May 9, 2020

    Moral Switzerlands

    July 15, 2019

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 15: The Whole Story

    March 14, 2019
  • faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    On the Public Death of a Suspect

    March 30, 2021 /

    I am watching the trial of Derek Chauvin, taking place right now, to determine his culpability and guilt in the public death of George Floyd some ten months ago.

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    Words of Apology

    May 9, 2020

    To Wrestle with the Angel

    February 25, 2019

    Real but Imaginary Threats

    June 19, 2021
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    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Can This Racial Division Be Healed?

    February 11, 2021 /

    It’s fascinating and saddening to realize that the people who are outside the faith have a better understanding of Jesus and Christianity and the Gospel than many Evangelicals have.

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    Wyte Innocence

    March 28, 2022
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    Sometimes our brains tell the truth while our emotions lie

    May 3, 2023
    Community and Acceptance

    What Is the Home That Shuts Its Doors to You?

    September 23, 2019
  • Three people sit facing a large mural. The mural has about a hundred faces.
    American Exceptionalism,  history,  justice,  photos,  racism

    We Must See People in Color

    January 22, 2021 /

    It is the reality of America that white people do recognize color, and use it for judgment about a person’s character.

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    When we resist, we resist completely

    April 8, 2023

    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 4: Optimism

    February 2, 2019
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    #WakingUpWhite Chapter 40: Bull in a China Shop

    January 26, 2020
  • Close-up of two old doors painted white. The paint is peeling off.
    American Exceptionalism,  faith,  history,  justice,  racism

    Beyond the Sight Lines of Racism

    January 1, 2021 /

    Small acts lead to great effects, and nothing that we do is wasted when we are committed to doing well.

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    Shadows on the Wall

    July 15, 2021
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    We Must See People in Color

    January 22, 2021

    News and Updates

    April 13, 2019
  • Books,  faith,  justice,  racism

    REVIEW: How to Fight Racism

    December 28, 2020 /

    Working to bring our fellow human beings up to their full dignity as people who are endowed with full human, civil rights is a good thing for all of us,

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    Mwen damou pou Vava – a story

    March 17, 2023

    Review: When They Call You a Terrorist

    February 9, 2019

    If I love you, I have to make you conscious of the things you don’t see

    January 26, 2019
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